Sunday, March 8, 2009
How relevant is the above statement? When in real life you have to make adjustments to yourself to meet the criteria of your partner. How prepared are we to make these changes? How well prepared are we to adapt to it? Some can just say and make empty promises. Like they say actions speaks louder than words. At first... I swear i won’t take this anymore... I won’t do this anymore... you can have my words.. And that you’re the only one that I love... When at the end of the day.. It is lies after so many lies... Whatever said it is merely bullshit. Then again, this doesn’t apply to all. But how can we tell that they really meant what they say? Well.. no one’s a psychic or what. We just can’t tell how genuine and sincere the person is. When they make a mistake or many mistakes...we were asked to give them chances... But how many...exactly? How many chances can a person give before we call everything off and end it right there and then. Until when we’re suppose to endure? We get carried away and tend to give too much leeways to the other party. For how long are we suppose to tolerate all these nonsense that’s piling up each day without us knowing? Everyone has different degree of patience. Different people don’t have the same degree of tolerance. Before beginning a relationship with someone... can we actually accept whoever that someone really is? Yes everything can be compromised. But can we actually handle whatever shit that’s coming? For example If you’re a girl... Your future bf has a lot of girl friends..Are you able to control your jealousy so that it wont turn out ugly in the later part? Vice versa. For some... he/she doesn’t really care who your gf/bf-to-be mingle around with. Some are just close to the opposite sex but they know where to draw a line to it. And this really applies to SOME. Like what ameera commented: Shima. You just don’t give a shit even though you’re the only girl there. What she said is true. I don’t care if the people surrounding me are guys. I’m already used to it. To be frank... I actually enjoyed myself more when I’m with them. They are really entertaining bunch. There isn’t any awkwardness or uneasiness like any girl would have probably felt when they were surrounded by guys. Sometimes I do get carried away with all the teasings and jokes but the girlfriends of my guy friends shouldn’t even feel threatened by my presence with her boyfriend. I don’t even think there’s a need to. Coz I’m not a bf snatcher. It’s just not me. And even if I were to have a bf... i don’t think there’s a need for him to restrict who I shoud be friends with. I can never cheat the person whom I’m in love with and have decided to be with... right? I mean.. that’s the real reason for anyone to commit to a relationship. No one wants to end it when we start a relationship. (Unless you’re a playgirl or a playboy uh..) It’s not worth it to just throw away everything like that. It’ll be wasted. Might as well you don’t even bother to start any if it’s gonna end just like that. It doesn’t matter who you’re surrounded with... who you want to be friends with...as long as you know how to draw that line and you won’t go overboard. ShImA AND... HAPPY 19th BIRTHDAY To the most wicked, witty and awesome guy friend I've ever had Nipunjeev ♥ disguised at { 12:45 AM } |
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